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In-between

1/9/2008

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January 3 marks an in-between date for me. A date halfway between my father's death and his wife, Sandy's death. He of cancer, she of a freakish horseback riding accident. Nonetheless, it was quite a shock to lose them both within ten weeks of each other. My siblings and I expected Dad's death. Cancer has a way to infiltrating your life whether you want it to or not. We didn't; it did. End of story. End of life.

Sandy, on the other hand, was out riding her horse as she had done many, many, many times before. No one will ever know exactly what happened or why, but we know Sandy died doing what she loved most in life. It doesn't make her death any easier, by any means.

In the end Dad didn't have it so good. The cancer robbed him of life, slowly and sadly. He did, however, have a chance to say good bye to his brother and sister-in-law, eleven children -- his seven children, her four and many, many grandchildren, two great-grandchildren.

In the end Sandy didn't have it so good. Though she died doing what she loved, she did not have the opportunity to say good-bye. That was sad for the children and family members, but fortunately, we had each other.

So, here as January 3 approaches, I remember them ... their zest for life ... family ... each other.

Dad and Sandy side by side
Bickering, teasing, reading
Side by side reside
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        • Hard-Cooked Eggs
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        • Matthew's Overnight Oats
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        • Cucumber Salad
        • Eat-the-Rainbow Salad
        • Fresh Tomato Salsa
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        • Kachumber Salad
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        • Quinoa Protein Bowl
        • Spinach Salad
        • Tomato-Cucumber Salad with Feta
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        • Celery Soup
        • Chicken Tortilla Soup
        • Couscous Soup
        • Cream of Mushroom Soup
        • Curried Pumpkin Bisque
        • Instant Pot Loaded Cauliflower Soup
        • Rainbow Soup
        • Simple Tomato Soup
        • Tuscan Chicken Soup
        • Vegetable Beef Soup
        • Zucchini Soup with Poached White Fish
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        • Naan Bread
        • Perfect Protein Pancakes
        • Rosemary Focaccia Bread
      • Entrees >
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        • Aunt Mary's Fillup
        • Baked Halibut
        • Beef Short Ribs
        • Chicken and Broccoli Stirfry
        • Curried Stuffed Mushrooms
        • Creamy Chicken Enchilladas
        • Creamy Garlic Shrimp
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        • Ground Beef with Cabbage
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        • Smoked Pork Chops
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        • Tom's Italian Beef
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        • Cauliflower "Steaks"
        • Cheesy Broccoli-Stuffed Spaghetti Squash
        • Garlic-Sesame Sautéed Spinach (Sautéed Sigeumchi Namul)
        • Sauteed Chard with Garlic
        • Sauteed Fresh Spinach
        • Yellow Squash Casserole
      • Desserts & Snacks >
        • 5-Ingredient Chocolate Bars
        • Best Granola Ever!
        • Apple Nachos
        • Earl Grey Ice Cream
        • Eggnog Truffles
        • Homemade Pimento Cheese Dip
        • Instant Pot Cold-Start Yogurt
        • Ka'chava Chocolate Ice Cream
        • Karen's Lemon Squares
        • Low-Carb Green Smoothie
        • Nuts!
      • Condiments & Sauces >
        • A Healthier Cranberry Sauce
        • Basil Pesto
        • Buffalo Wing Sauce
        • Cowboy Caviar (Salsa)
      • Herbs and Spices >
        • Greek Seasoning
        • Rosemary
        • Taco Seasoning